My mother is the queen of productivity – and I think that desire was passed down to me inherently. I always am aiming to be more productive at home – but it’s so hard. I think back on my childhood and wonder how my mom kept such a calm and peaceful home – while having 4 kids. The dream!
Currently I have one toddler – another babe due soon – and am working 8-5 at home. This means I have very little time to myself. Most productive things happen before the day starts at 7 am, or after dinner around 9 pm. Anything in the house is totally hit or miss!
Why is being productive so hard? I mean – we are adults. You think our brains would be able to make smart decisions by themselves. Instead, we are so human, and I think that this is one area that everyone struggles with.
The key to being productive at home? Knowing your limitations and being ok with it! (And finding help to fill in your weak spots.) Let me show you how I do it!
1. Pick one part of the house to always be clean
I think it is impossible to have your whole house clean all the time. Let’s be honest. The sooner we realize this the better! Instead, I know that at least I always want my kitchen to be clean. If I can keep my kitchen clean, the rest of the house seems a lot more manageable.
I have recently resolved to not go to bed until dishes are done and the counters are wiped down. You think this would be easy. But no, I often just want to pile up my dishes in the sink during that after-dinner lull, and let them sit until the morning. But actually washing the dishes and cleaning the counters makes me feel like a hundred bucks.
My two favorite things for cleaning my kitchen are my dish drying mat and Mrs. Myers cleaning spray.
When I wash my dishes, I hardly ever dry them and put them away. But, if I leave them out on my dish drying mat, they are contained, clean, and my kitchen appears to be organized and clean. It’s a win for me.
Also, using the Mrs Myers cleaning spray is pretty much divine! It makes my kitchen smell amazing, cleans all the dirty counters, and feels like I’m giving my kitchen a little spa. I love this stuff so much!
Even if the rest of my house is a total mess – seeing this one part of the house cleans refreshes my soul.
2. Know when you are weary – and don’t make decisions then
I have quickly learned that I am not a night person. I have spent too many nights in tears and exasperation because no conversation goes well for me at night. It’s just a fact.
Instead, I have learned to tell my husband, “I can’t have this conversation tonight. I know I will have a much clearer mind in the morning.”
This one strategy has saved us MANY hard discussions and tears. I wish I had learned this a long time ago. I love this quote:
Don’t make promises when you are in joy.
Don’t reply when you are sad.
Don’t make decisions when you are angry.
3. Ask for help
Know your limitations! Honestly, there is no way one person can do everything. One time I was watching a YouTuber explainer her schedule and day, and she said something like, “We have decided that something has to go – and for us that is me cooking.”
This really resonated with me. Something has to go! Whether it is cleaning your own house, watching your kids, cooking your dinners, doing your errands – it’s is ok to ask for help!
Currently I have childcare help – and I get my groceries and Target-run delivered. Not having to do my errands has saved me SO MUCH TIME.
Some of my favorite delivery services are:
Walmart Grocery Pickup/Delivery: My life is too busy to grocery shop. I currently have a toddler and am pregnant, and just walking through the grocery store makes my back hurt. Wal-Mart Pickup and Delivery is the ONLY way I function nowadays. I just order my groceries online – and then pick them up in my free time – with everyone staying in the car. It’s a FREE service – and you can shop now and get $10 off your first order of $50 or more. Use code WOWFRESH.
Target Same Day Delivery: Once I got pregnant – and the summer got hot – and my daughter couldn’t stay away from the toy section – I had to stop my fun weekly Target runs. Sad, I know. But, I was super happy to start using Target’s Same Day Delivery! This has made my fun Target shopping hauls just as fun – and it gives me an excuse to shop online. Check it out and if you don’t have time to shop.
Amazon Subscribe and Save: Subscribe and Save is my eternal lifesaver. I use this Amazon monthly subscription to order everything – diapers, soap, makeup, coffee, toothpaste, toilet paper… I love that some items come every month – some every 6 months. Also – if you have Amazon Family – diapers and baby products are up to 20% off when you use Subscribe and Save. It is EVERYTHING.
4. Identify one weakness and set a 4-6 week goal
Being human means that we know we can’t do it all. And knowing you can’t do it all is so freeing. I don’t love to make a ton of goals because I know I will fail at them. I am not the best at making goals.
But, I love to make “long-term goals” that I aim to achieve in 4-6 weeks. This is totally do-able for me!
My favorite motivation is knowing that I will be alive and doing something in 4 weeks anyway, so I might as well be alive and have this one goal accomplished.
Some goals that I have set in the past have been:
- Drink morning green smoothies – I still do this on and off
- Use the Lose It App to count calories.
- Begin the “No ‘Poo” (no shampoo) method – this lasted three months
- Improve my kitchen organization
- Overhaul my makeup and beauty products supply – a great thing to do!
- Begin a prayer/Bible journal
- Complete the Jillian Michael’s 30 Day Shred – done in WAY over 30 days
- Find a solution for clear skin – this is on-going!
- Find a solution for makeup organization
Knowing that I have plenty of time to figure things out, I am able to spend time researching, coming up with the best plan for me, and creating a reasonable plan. This is WAY more reasonable for me than creating fast impulsive resolutions.
One of my favorite ways to do this is to use the AWESOME goal planners offered in the Ultimate Productivity Bundle. This productivity package is INSANE and has so many awesome planners that help with short-term and long-term goals!
This bundle is a collection of best products created by bloggers. Total, it’s value is $1,506.90. But, because a bunch of bloggers wanted to give you a discount, you can get it for under $60 – less than a typical Life Planner!
Who is this Productivity Bundle for:
This Productivity Bundle is for everyone – but especially moms: stay-at-home moms, single moms, work-at-home moms, working moms, and homeschooling moms.
I love how there is something for everyone. There are planners for Entrepreneurs, Homeschooling Moms, Empty Nesters, College Students, Couples, Online Business People, and the Chronically Ill. Basically, everyone needs to check this out.
These are some of the things that are included:
– Life Planners
– Time Management Systems (one for personality types!)
– Homeschooling Planners
– Cleaning Systems/Spreadsheets
– Household Chore Charts
– Goal setting ecourses for the year
– Bullet Journal Planners
– Project Planners for at Work
How can you get this Bundle?
If you want any more information about this bundle, just click here and it will show you all the awesome bonuses that you will get. You don’t have to commit to anything – just make sure you don’t miss this awesome deal!
5. Live each day like you deliberately came back to that day to live it.
Have you seen the movie About Time? It is a time-travel movie that I highly recommend. I watched it YEARS ago – and this one quote stood out to me so much:
I just try to live every day as if I’ve deliberately come back to this one day, to enjoy it, as if it was the full final day of my extraordinary, ordinary life.About Time
Don’t you love this? I know not every day is not worth repeating. There have been so many bad days, let’s be honest. But viewing of each day as it’s worth repeating is such a refreshing perspective.
How do I live like this on a daily basis? I use the One-a-Day Journal! I discovered this One-a-Day journal a few years back – and bought it on a whim. I am horrible at journaling, and didn’t know if this concept would “work”. Basically, every night before you go to bed you write one sentence about the day – what happened, what you were feeling – a memory. And that’s it. You do this every night – and then after a year you repeat the same process for a new year. And – you can look back on last year to see what happened “this time last year”. I am now on my third year – and I can’t tell you how precious knowing these memories has been. I hate that I didn’t do this years before to keep those memories.
How do you stay productive at home?
I know being productive at home is SO HARD. I’d love to hear all the ways that you stay productive and get it all done. Make sure you leave a comment with your favorite productivity tips!